My Story

Welcome. This is where it starts, this is where Lyfe begins.

Hi. I’m Asha, a certified life coach in California. Okay, let’s get to it. Let’s get personal.

As much as I would like to give you this unscathed version of my lyfe before I understood what my journey meant, it would not be my truth. You see, my journey would be viewed as somewhat challenging, and most would definitely call it traumatizing. 

Personally, I call it my LYFE’S JOURNEY. So, let’s dive in, shall we?

You see, I’m not unfamiliar with trauma, struggle, heartache, disappointment, guilt, shame, or pain. I understand what it feels like to be overwhelmed by it all, tired of lyfe seeming so complicated and confusing with nowhere to go and no one to talk to. I know what it feels like to feel alone and confused like no one understands you. And no matter what you say or how you put it it still seems as if no one understands or cares.

For so many years, I allowed others to hold my feelings hostage to where I was held captive in my own mind. I believed that this was what I deserved; that this was what my lyfe was supposed to be.

Then one day, I said, “ENOUGH!” I was tired of watching everyone else live the lyfe I wanted to live.

What I realized was that my lyfe was like a treadmill—I was running and going nowhere fast. I realized that sometimes, you come to a point in your lyfe when the light comes on and you begin to see yourself. You begin to see yourself for who you really are, you begin to hear your own voice, and it doesn’t matter who else hears, because you hear yourself.

Understand that everyone has choices and that means you as well...Know and understand what those choices are and own them and embrace them because they're yours. Live your lyfe as your own and love yourself in the process.

So, when does it all end? Let me tell you: IT ENDS NOW!!! Stop allowing others to hold your feelings and your LYFE hostage take back your LYFE and begin living.

When I think about lyfe I think about being unsure, I think about doubt. Thinking about what's to come unnerves me to no end so I stop because it seems as if it's too much and for what reason should I do that to myself. Lyfe is short and it's unpredictable and when you think you have it all figured out you don't so why bother? Being my authentic self is the only thing that matters now. What I realize about being unsure is being okay about being unsure. Understanding who I am now is what's important not how I got here but where I'm going but I will never forget my past, my journey, but realizing being me is great. 

I don't know what lyfe holds for me, but I know now what I want out of lyfe and I know that I can achieve anything.

When I started down this path, my journey I was all over the place. I could not have told you how it was going to come about, I just knew I had to do it and I needed to start right then it was like my lyfe depended on it at that moment. Caring what others thought of me or how lyfe had defined me up until then didn't matter what did matter was that the light had come on and that passion to take back control of my lyfe and help others along their journey is what mattered.